其實假設如果.........我們真的可以一起嗎??

Dear CC,

I long time no write in the blog, the reason because i always communicate with you these days..

This topic is pre-seted in a month ago, i just wonder we can be lived or worked together if no barrier between us??

Why i have this thought in my mind nei..

It is because we are too ideal in the dating stage,

We have a perfect dating time,
We have a perfect not dating time.. ( to generate a good mood of missing)
We generate surprise upon one is busy
We treasured much of and most of our meeting time.
Actually all our time is dating, no need to think ( or no future to think) the other aspect.
Actually we just enjoyed all our time.
Actually because of no future, then our belief will become no target,,,,,we did just we want.


a.It is good for dating. and ideal for a sweet date, but is it provide a good support for a long term relationship??

To answer this question, i just generate another question,.........

b.How to maintain a sweet love affair without a target...? i.e. If you drive a car, you will feel comfortable when you cannot see the road clearly?

The answer of b, the underlying issue lied on our trust of each other, our promise to each other. But the most important is the TRUE altitude towards each other... I just imagine if no truth is shared among ourselves..no love can be generated.

Truth is 殘酷..we all know this fact.
Given this fact in our mind, we indeed did a great presentation to each other.
We keep on telling the truth to each other although we not yet ask........

Like all of my ex-gf's behaviour, like yr family issue, your teeth status.etc.

We gave out our heart to each other. Like we always presented a naked heart to each other....

So our communication is very pure...no secret is kept in our mind.

Maybe our strange combination make our linkage very tight.

And this explained why i felt our combination is loose initially. The reason is i cannot share your trustiness, but we solved it by keeping talk and talk and fill up our unknown gap.. Then our linkage will become tight again.

I answer my thought towards question b.

And regarding to the question a,

My answer is lie on our communication..

I define communication has three distinct categories.
From heart,,and From behavior,From our presentation.

In behavior mode, i must treat you good as every BF in all around us.
In the heart mode, i think it depends on the attractiveness between us. If i do think we are attract each other in a great extent, then we can keep to treat each other good and the feeling can be maintained.
In the presentation mode, it is critical, the key is we can keep our lengthy conversation or not.
And can keep our variety of our communication.
Like SMS, email. phone and 3G....

I just know if it can kept....i can say our relationship will last ..

I remembered tightly that our concern is whether we will have another affair.....
This concern is not a threat,, because in the day one, with you.... i do not have space for others..

And given my personality,,,,, if i have another girl,,,,,beforehand, you will discover it in advance....

And truly speaking, if i can get you.....i certainly will not risk to the others... it is for sure..

hahaa

But we know if we can together at last,, and our communication become less frequent.. problem must be happened.......hahahaa..

But you know in this stage,, i still cannot bear " you get angry for me" for one minute...

I dun like the one i love to suffer... at least in my control..

I dun like the i love to be have alone feeling or sad....or get in trouble or get in a scenario that out of control...it is really my way of loving girl..really..

hehee..

CC again.. I love you..hehe